The Perfect "Thank You"

A donor has just sent you a monetary gift, donated time, or notified you that your organization will be remembered in their end-of-life plans. After your happy dance is done you think, “I need to send a thank you!”


But, what do you include that insures it will be perfect?


These are not new ideas, but they are important. Here they are again, collected for your benefit and for the joy of your donors:

  • Prompt. Any response you make must be within 48-hours. It must. You simply can’t let other disasters distract you from the important job of acknowledging the gift.
  • Personal. We suggest that every above-average gift get a hand-written thank you in addition to the obligatory tax-receipt. (Some hand-write ALL.) And don’t boilerplate! Mention their family, what you share in common, connections, and anything else that makes them feel like you invested some of your valuable time in exchange for their monetary investment. 
  • Accurate. Don’t use a name unless you are 100% sure you are correct. Donald may be the name on the tax record, but to his friends he is Don and those closest to him call him Doc. If you don’t know, include a P.S. “Our records show your first name as Donald. How would you prefer to be addressed?”
  • Connected. Tell your donor how the money will be used – specifically. Tell them the gallons of paint it will buy, how many dogs it will rescue, how many girls will be kept from a lifetime of shame. They gave you their precious resources because they are connected to your mission; not to your organization.
  • You/your or I/we. Count your pronouns. Some have suggested you should have two-thirds of ‘you, your’ and only one-third of ‘I, we, my.’ It’s an interesting exercise to try. It shifts the focus to the donor – where it should be.
  • Thank You. End with it. Donors won’t read past it so if you lead with it, there goes the rest of the letter. Just make certain you say it!
  • Friendly. Be conversational and honest and relaxed. Gone are the days when formality was valued over being approachable.



P.S. Remember that the acknowledgment may be the close of the donation, but it’s the start of the relationship.

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